Countless Dramas by a selfish Older Sister

Begining of the year 1990ies. One close relative girl,after Completing form 5 started working and living a happy ,joyfull life. Her married Sister was not happy seeing her happy sister working and earning and attends office functions. This Sister, took her sisters salary and spent as she likes. The excuse she gave her sister was, she was paying the tution fee of her Children. Not only her sisters salary. Her fatbers pension also she took n spent as she likes.Asjed her brother to bsnk infur her ,saying bandly need money and bought handphone for her daughters. These girls were not guided to cook, or perform any duty in tbe house. So the girls had countless of friends, all males. This was the time ,problem started when their boy frieds disturbed them.at odd hours, which the mother found out, but hide frm.their dad. dad foumd out the daughters hv bern chstting with guys much older than them at Odd hours, he warn the girls, they poked ld their mother. The mother started to argue with her husbabd. The argument turned as fight. The next day tbe husbabd was hit by a lorry n died on tbe spot. Hit n run. This was something unacceltable when tbevwife a d chiksren created a drama, telling rhe fatver was in coma for one week and died in hospital aftet the accident.. All tbe vrelatives were i furmed abt rhe accidebt but the husbabd is still in Cima, so everyo e got a chance to visit him,n tbevwife xan artange money for the husbabds funeral. His chain was morgaged and tbey gad cash in habd for the funeral. The orher deaths in ger family was i formed to all the wel wishers and collected n used by them, the exownces of the funeral was shared by the brorher n his family. either this woman or her children co trkbuted, but Collwcted the money put on rhe Corspe n roik n kept with themm. This is what Demans do.

Hearts and Souls at University.

Turning point in any ones life comes as a surprise at any age.At age 40 I was given,a Choice when I applied PKG Program, thru Ministry of Education.Though 1 year earlier, I applied in UPSI and attended Interview, I was dissapointed, because I was not selected, the reason , I was Over qualified to be in that Program. Countless of locals and those who hv been Teaching around the Uni were Selected and started their training,in one month. After 6 months,I was offered to join a twining program by Ministry of Education. I accepted the offer. first year in Kuala Lipis, Pahang. Only 3 months I was in Lipis, Teachers Training College The same year April. I joined IPBA in KL at Lembah Pantai. one year, half pay.first sem, we were given College hostel. 3 rd month we were asked to moved out, the reason, we are adult students, mostly married n hv children.Several were young ,in.mid 20 ies, mid 30ies married and hv Children. All the undergrads were provided Conducive Single room hostel, shared same dorm with International students. My batch 80 percent were traveling from their home to attend lecture. Studyingnin Ipba was my Chice, because , easiky I can travel to my hiuse several days, so my kids can see me freequantly, n theybwontbbe missing me. almost six months I was traveling frm KL to my my house, very early morning and reach home , late evening, unable to focus in my cource work. So two semesters my marks droped. I had to re do two assignments.. Tjis has caused my marks abd cgpas droped. So my first year study, with minimum, points. So Ibworked reaky gard and mansged to get almost all the subjects B+ n 1 or 2 subjectb C. 2 A + my KOKO and BM kerjaya. My foreign Masters student, Amira from Sudan, helped to checked my work and edited, my assignments. My lunch hours , were mostly having meals or sharing ideas or having Conversation with Professors from Africa. These Afrucan Prifesdir mostly Teach, Islamic Civilization, Fiqh, Usuluddin. The Students frm Afrucan Ckybtrues aee the Elite group of students. Their fathers were Rich Merchants, Head Of the Nation, Governar of their Country, Retired Armys Governar General. East African Shared sane features like south Indians. Their food, attire all resemble South Indians.

Mother's :The pillars of Family

Mothers are being the very important human beings in their family..

A Father's Sacrifice never given a Thought.

A father gave the bedt education and send his children, to the good missionary schools, pd tbe school fees,beyomd his caoacity by borrowing frm money landers. Bytbthe older Children he bire were heartless ones. Fsil to give free education tonthenyounger ones, who hv been.overall, best among all the children he bore. The younger ones wete only in Primary school, as the Oder Ones hv Completed their school. The older ones hv statrted working and earning.When the younger Ones wete studying in Primary School.The younger ones wete sent to School untill form 5. No one among the Children willing to support the younger ones education. Instead create unwady situations fur thebyoung one, so the young one will find a Job and started to earn. insteaf the olser ones statrtef Controlling the young ones income ..

Missery means

If you dnt hv your father while growingup, its missery. If your basic needs are unable to full fill its mussery. If you are not bothered by your own siblings when,you need them while growing up, its missery. when you are forced to work over time, at the age of 14 its abuse and missery. at age of 15. you were burden to uncountable and unimaginable responsibilities on your Shoulder, its abuse and cruel. Theres no food, no food in the house, no one is there to cook for you,you eat whats in your surrounding, thats survival. Some abused at very young age , by their own fathers by burdening family responsibilities, on their young childrens shoulder. you are good in studies, you are able to pursue higher studies but your older siblings, hv some other plans which benefits them only. Thet are not willing to waste their money on you. life, but for them, its a waste. They wud rather invest money in other things or assets, would multiply in years. So your ambition and aims means zero to them. This is one of thevreason, why Countless of good students are not getting chance to go for further studies. Heartless/ selfish older siblings.

Life Long pampered

When life long pampered A grandma was pampered life long by her father, her younger brother's , sisters . Her life was just working ,earning and giving to support her kids education matters. No Time spend to care the kids or to hv Quality Time with them or guide them. She was earning working n pursuing her dreams as long she was earning. After retirement, she continues to experience the leisure life with her kids, her Brother's family and her home. Her Son had First Child his wife took care of the eldest child all by her self. Her focus was only on the girl. The 2nd Child was left with grandma. The mother does all the house work , cooking , cleaning ,washing n A to Z n leaving the child with Grandma giling she gives full attention. The History repeats. The grandmas focus was only on her hobbies n interest. She only feed n bath the child. Nothing shared , not even story Times , fun or laughter. The child grewup as emotionless Child and hardly shows interest on anything/any one. A woman who cant even take care of her own kids n spend time with them. How is she going to share emotional support. At mid 70 ies being vv active n focusing only on her own interest. Her kids life was as how not bothered by her ,so by their spouces . They married to someone same nature like their mother. Each One of them.mind their own business.

How others evaluate some one..

Being nice, respectful, caring , showing care, understanding. Without forcing the young ones against their wish . well.mannered n sweet talking , respectful , young people are always looked up.respectfully by others. Outsiders and Teachers always hv good n higher Opinion about certain people whom they think.posses quality. , but close family member sees only the weakness of their family member. Tjose who gliter, takls sweetly amd with glamour looks veing the qiality human being.The toogood n welbehaved always bullued and nit given Choice to make decissions in life.