Tuesday, June 6, 2023

How others evaluate some one..

Being nice, respectful, caring , showing care, understanding. Without forcing the young ones against their wish . well.mannered n sweet talking , respectful , young people are always looked up.respectfully by others. Outsiders and Teachers always hv good n higher Opinion about certain people whom they think.posses quality. , but close family member sees only the weakness of their family member. Tjose who gliter, takls sweetly amd with glamour looks veing the qiality human being.The toogood n welbehaved always bullued and nit given Choice to make decissions in life.

Outsiders Opinion always different than a close knit/ kin

Famimy memvers wsoecualy Older Sibking veunf guardians of ykunger Dibkings in tbe absence od a fsther. act double or Over protective Over theur younger dibkings abd st the same ti.e not being sensitive, wuthnthebyounger ones needs. the basic needs are fulfilled but tje younger ones mwnral.,emotional deeds are not borhered. The older siblings find wsts to Ocvuoy the younger ones with hiuse Chires, learning, cleaning, and taking care of theur young neices abd nephews. The yiung ones foid and dressing bei g counred and takwn into.consuderstion. The otber tjings are nit given.priority. Thw older ones akwYs underestimate rhe young ones ability ,Talents and skills. Very Seldom, older siblings study theur younger ones. AlwYs older ones being rhe decisdion majers in.everything in the life of their younger ones, future , ambition, interedt, education. example : My older brother gad higher vission fir me wben I passef in firm 3 exam , he called me n told me, thT hevwill sr d me to UK or Indua fur further studies after form 5. vyt qjen he had his life partner, he has furgitten about his promise but want to make me a clerk either in a bank or in a press. My visdion was bigger, with out Consulting him, i joined Teaching. I srarted. as a Temporary Teacher. later pursued Hollidawy course n tuened out a train Teacher. Seeing countless of hurdkes n problems in my.life , both of mybsusters planned toget me bck with them. so ill be a life long slave to them. very strictly I voiced to them, even if i endup on street, ill.nrver conebck to them. i wud rsther live a life away from them.life long..