Education is utmost but selfishness has caused several Older family members to neglect the brilliant and start youths needs.

Education seems very important in the lives of lower middle class Community and in.the lives of parents frm.poorbfamilies fur rheur chikdren, but tjeirbyounfer sibkings life is not determined, n.not given Choice either fur education or fur future of tbe younger siblings The younger siblings are not given Chiice in life to decide what thrycwant or whst tbey intend to do after high school. The Olser Sibkings being Domineeri g untill many of rbeur Older Sibkings Childrens life abs happinesd being ruined by theyr parebts stuborn attitude. when the yiubfer one has someone of theur own Choice, they destrot theue happiness by beung artigabt and stuborn. Not borhered abtbthe yiubfer ones decision or Choice, but fibs somw ibe n fixed as their choice, aftervgettinf msrrued to rhe strabger of the parebts choice these youngster , after certain timwe find rheur own path n.life... when the youths in the family handle their own older Siblings. The married Older Siblings started to be Calculative.Hardky enciursge or being supportive. the younger ones , being a burden to them, no profit frm the schooling Youths. So they are adviced to fibd a job and earn. The youths Could be encouraged to go fir higher study in Govetnent School without paying fee, but thevfamiky memvers not willing to support, or not willing to educate the young ones. So the youths managed to get temporsry jobs abd started earning, but now the older Siblibgs stsrted to advice abd Control their earning. Getting the youngersters to get ready for marriage. Thiugh the youth nit ready to get married. when Choice not given, not encouraged to go for further studies, and squating with older Sibling , the only solution these youbgster fi d is to get marriwd abd keavevthe older siblings abd their homtown so rhsy will hv a roof of tjeur own. a shade or Cornwr , in rhe absebxe of theur parents.. As years pass, these youngsters are faced with multuiple challenges in life, treated v badly by rhe inlaws, by the owrson tbey are married abd by theur rekstives. harsh words,missuse pf yheur hard esrnings by the inlaws famiky members . Life withoyt parents abs griwi g in tbe sgade of older Soblibgs is a Curse to aol orphans. Time heals though Challenges.Hard work hard work and hardwork . Helps this younfster to be vety wise, problem solver , healer, abd beung a strong sipoet at the place , on tbeur family n fur theur oan children. The older siblings who hardly bothers about these individuals education and future, Spend beyond their limit and capacity to educate their own chikdren. One spend almost half million for his daughters education in Overseas, furvtwo tears, which was a waste . Because the daughter didnr put effort in studues and, failed twice thevexam and returned home after wasted several hundred thousand ringgit. A brother looked down his briliabt younger sister, make fun of her everytime when.he meet her. God has helped the helpless younger sister, by sending precious Gods messengers who guided her abd showed her the path to pursue tertisry ecucation. She was sekwcted in a intetnational University with 10K tution Fee by ministry of education as a gift fur being a dedicated Teacher for almost 20 years Teaching in Rural schools. The plus poimt was age syayed with the ibternational students in the International studebts Dorm. with almost sthdebts from almost 50 Over countries around the world. Being the only Malaysian student, mingling with postgrad and Phd students from various faculties, sharing Cultural experience. joined /participated in International students cultural week. Though her own sibling not willing to encourage her to pursue what she wants in life, God gave her an Opportunity, to study in a international university at the age of 40, with students around the globe.. I just accept this as Gods wish or Gods gift for serving the poor . Rural kids People can stop what we should get , when the almighty has planned, no one can stop, what we are supose to get.. The parents who pamparered and paid bigger sum for their children keiep on pamperimg them.life long. one spend almost