Life Long pampered

When life long pampered A grandma was pampered life long by her father, her younger brother's , sisters . Her life was just working ,earning and giving to support her kids education matters. No Time spend to care the kids or to hv Quality Time with them or guide them. She was earning working n pursuing her dreams as long she was earning. After retirement, she continues to experience the leisure life with her kids, her Brother's family and her home. Her Son had First Child his wife took care of the eldest child all by her self. Her focus was only on the girl. The 2nd Child was left with grandma. The mother does all the house work , cooking , cleaning ,washing n A to Z n leaving the child with Grandma giling she gives full attention. The History repeats. The grandmas focus was only on her hobbies n interest. She only feed n bath the child. Nothing shared , not even story Times , fun or laughter. The child grewup as emotionless Child and hardly shows interest on anything/any one. A woman who cant even take care of her own kids n spend time with them. How is she going to share emotional support. At mid 70 ies being vv active n focusing only on her own interest. Her kids life was as how not bothered by her ,so by their spouces . They married to someone same nature like their mother. Each One of them.mind their own business.