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Sunday, October 29, 2023
Weird experiences gain thru older Siblings.
Though I was growing up as kg Child. The food and clothing were class.As long i lived in Village house the best simple living environment. home
grown,fruits and vegeies were Consuming.
The day I joined my older Siblings house,gone my happiness and freedom.
My dressing, my food, my life everythung was decided by them. The worst emotions i ever Come across. The own sister seems like a stranger.Like an unknown person. Squating with.older Sibling for SPM exam, so I could pass and get a job. This was every Older siblings wish. none oc them thiught about sending me to school for preuni education.Non of them, either sdviced me or asked me to do oart time Cources. I was stsrted esrning, thre vomes my suster advicing me and asking me to give her monthly for my future. Another brother working n living in Ipih, whatever he esrns not enough for him self. The bigger dmount of money saved thru monthly Contribution as Koottu taken by him according to my sister. she never asked me if I want to give. she said he asked and i gave him, to get a car. When i asked him he said he didnt take money frm my sister for the car. no o e give me money.Great life lessons lesrnt thru loosimg hard earned mo ey cheated by iwn older Siblings who are not willing to to see me studying form 6.
Family gathetings were another situations vcreated to steal money.
The weird feelings , emotions and being Victimized by own older siblings in the name of family , love and gathetings. Since the only younger suster works as Teacher in Governemt Sector , tbeir imagination went beyond the Sky abt my earningd or income ,which O hv bern getyimg only few hundreds.
Accomodation is free no need to pay , but fir the one night stsy and food i need tp give 350 ringgit to them. My kidsboth were very young kids cant eat much they are one of the good kids among them.Wvery fanikt fatheri gd im robbed by the heartless so called Older siblings.
Few abd many of tbem are exceptional, no need to pay. my.ekdest brotber withnhus familt, Mt ekdest sistwr n ger bigger family. Tne 2 nd suster will be charginf certain amount od mo ey fur rbe titbits amd fruits they broght along.
Candies and Wajik made by 2nd sister are sold there.
During one gatheting, all rbe kids and my sekf were left alone in.an.soartment we wete staying. around 4 pm all.tbe susters abd Dusyer inlaw went out in two cars leaving me tge only lafy with all theur children, Cameback after 4 hours. The girks were swimming in the swimming pool accompanied by their uncles. All of a sudden my 2nd suster saw a stranger in tne pool talking to her daughrervwho was in two piece Swim suit bought by her mom. She strated scoldinf me abd shouting
aloud, yiu as an aunt not responsibke of takung xare of yiur neice. I trusted you n left her in your care. sge is tbere talking to a stranger n you are not bothered.
I shiwed to her my brothers who are with them, telling see lah akka, All her uncjes are with the neice in.tbe pool, why you worry fir no reason. They are with her im wstching them, for long..
Sgecwas still angry . A responsibke mothers duty is to take care of her daughter. When she has been, looked after, if catn thank her just keeo quite, dnt ruined her day by scolding her for no reason. Mistake is hers but being victimized is the younger Sibling..
when anyone in wrong hands even tbe good seems like wrong. Victimizing them for no reason.
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