Sweet porridge , The most delicious ..

Growing up in Village and tsating the Authenthic meals prepared by older sisters fur us, all tne family members is something Common on daiky basis. out of tbis , my second suster used to cook, sweet oats Porridge fir all of us in a larve pot, add Coconut milk and pandan leaves. The most delicious Porridge i tasted duri g my cjikdhood days. otber than, Oats porridge, urughaal porridge one of the sweet porridge my suster used to preoared on evenings , at leadt once a week. urudhaal, is siaked and pounded in granite stone, grinder, traditional way. Me n mynyoubger suster as kids, were realky taken care by the older sisters lime theu own chimdrem, good food, and good dresses stitched by my older sisters. It was a real childhood life full of joy and and only play, learning and reading non stop. Daiky getting the maximum sun, by playing kites, catching grass hopper, climbing gusvavtrees, pluck guava n est on the tree at age 17.The only Tomboy in my Village n always mingling with neighbour boys and with my 3 brothers who with 5 years age gap.

Learning, not necessarily from educated.

Teaching in Rural schools gives us rich exposure, to anyone who wish to study the working environment. Year 2002 was a particukar year, I wss appointed as. srnior asdistannt and Engkish language Teacher in a oil palm estate school. That schools studebrs enrolment was only 20 plus, the Teaching personals were two temporary Teachers. One Malay Language Teacher, A gardener, Head Master abd Myvself as the bsvk bone of the school. I was told bybthe Education , officer inchargebof Primary schools, that I should help Principle.The students were mostly from that estate it self. vety daring, quickearning learners, Only they did not get , loving.caring and Compassionate Teachers. few upowr class girls were, naughty and behaved like College students. One girl and One boy, I cant forget due to their family environmemt. The boy used to be akwsys in clean shining school Uniform. The girl had white pearly Teeth. This girks mom, daily prepared fried noodles, and fried Chicken and brought to school. sgecwire gold necklace, huge earing avd gold bangjes , wore her husbands, shirt and pants. After give me the food, told me the name of her daughter n asked me to pass it to her daughter. She with smiling face, spoke to me politely and, started to walked around the temple. This is something wrong ,I realized she has lost her sense. The daughter told me , that her mom,not well.Ibtold the girl, a mom whether sick or not sick,only her children being important in their life.,Thats why sge brings the food she prepared by her self for her daughter. Oneday before Teachers day celeberation, I asked the students what they like to eat. One boy told me, Teacher Cook for us some hot n spicy Vadai. The next morning I prepared hot dhal vadai with lots of hot green Chillies and sweet green beans fried balls. The kids enjoyed the sweet and hot kuihs I prepared for them especially, on Teachers day. My culture ,give beautiful and heartfelt memories to the Kids in.our Working environment.

Countless Dramas by a selfish Older Sister

Begining of the year 1990ies. One close relative girl,after Completing form 5 started working and living a happy ,joyfull life. Her married Sister was not happy seeing her happy sister working and earning and attends office functions. This Sister, took her sisters salary and spent as she likes. The excuse she gave her sister was, she was paying the tution fee of her Children. Not only her sisters salary. Her fatbers pension also she took n spent as she likes.Asjed her brother to bsnk infur her ,saying bandly need money and bought handphone for her daughters. These girls were not guided to cook, or perform any duty in tbe house. So the girls had countless of friends, all males. This was the time ,problem started when their boy frieds disturbed them.at odd hours, which the mother found out, but hide frm.their dad. dad foumd out the daughters hv bern chstting with guys much older than them at Odd hours, he warn the girls, they poked ld their mother. The mother started to argue with her husbabd. The argument turned as fight. The next day tbe husbabd was hit by a lorry n died on tbe spot. Hit n run. This was something unacceltable when tbevwife a d chiksren created a drama, telling rhe fatver was in coma for one week and died in hospital aftet the accident.. All tbe vrelatives were i furmed abt rhe accidebt but the husbabd is still in Cima, so everyo e got a chance to visit him,n tbevwife xan artange money for the husbabds funeral. His chain was morgaged and tbey gad cash in habd for the funeral. The orher deaths in ger family was i formed to all the wel wishers and collected n used by them, the exownces of the funeral was shared by the brorher n his family. either this woman or her children co trkbuted, but Collwcted the money put on rhe Corspe n roik n kept with themm. This is what Demans do.

Hearts and Souls at University.

Turning point in any ones life comes as a surprise at any age.At age 40 I was given,a Choice when I applied PKG Program, thru Ministry of Education.Though 1 year earlier, I applied in UPSI and attended Interview, I was dissapointed, because I was not selected, the reason , I was Over qualified to be in that Program. Countless of locals and those who hv been Teaching around the Uni were Selected and started their training,in one month. After 6 months,I was offered to join a twining program by Ministry of Education. I accepted the offer. first year in Kuala Lipis, Pahang. Only 3 months I was in Lipis, Teachers Training College The same year April. I joined IPBA in KL at Lembah Pantai. one year, half pay.first sem, we were given College hostel. 3 rd month we were asked to moved out, the reason, we are adult students, mostly married n hv children.Several were young ,in.mid 20 ies, mid 30ies married and hv Children. All the undergrads were provided Conducive Single room hostel, shared same dorm with International students. My batch 80 percent were traveling from their home to attend lecture. Studyingnin Ipba was my Chice, because , easiky I can travel to my hiuse several days, so my kids can see me freequantly, n theybwontbbe missing me. almost six months I was traveling frm KL to my my house, very early morning and reach home , late evening, unable to focus in my cource work. So two semesters my marks droped. I had to re do two assignments.. Tjis has caused my marks abd cgpas droped. So my first year study, with minimum, points. So Ibworked reaky gard and mansged to get almost all the subjects B+ n 1 or 2 subjectb C. 2 A + my KOKO and BM kerjaya. My foreign Masters student, Amira from Sudan, helped to checked my work and edited, my assignments. My lunch hours , were mostly having meals or sharing ideas or having Conversation with Professors from Africa. These Afrucan Prifesdir mostly Teach, Islamic Civilization, Fiqh, Usuluddin. The Students frm Afrucan Ckybtrues aee the Elite group of students. Their fathers were Rich Merchants, Head Of the Nation, Governar of their Country, Retired Armys Governar General. East African Shared sane features like south Indians. Their food, attire all resemble South Indians.

Mother's :The pillars of Family

Mothers are being the very important human beings in their family..

A Father's Sacrifice never given a Thought.

A father gave the bedt education and send his children, to the good missionary schools, pd tbe school fees,beyomd his caoacity by borrowing frm money landers. Bytbthe older Children he bire were heartless ones. Fsil to give free education tonthenyounger ones, who hv been.overall, best among all the children he bore. The younger ones wete only in Primary school, as the Oder Ones hv Completed their school. The older ones hv statrted working and earning.When the younger Ones wete studying in Primary School.The younger ones wete sent to School untill form 5. No one among the Children willing to support the younger ones education. Instead create unwady situations fur thebyoung one, so the young one will find a Job and started to earn. insteaf the olser ones statrtef Controlling the young ones income ..

Missery means

If you dnt hv your father while growingup, its missery. If your basic needs are unable to full fill its mussery. If you are not bothered by your own siblings when,you need them while growing up, its missery. when you are forced to work over time, at the age of 14 its abuse and missery. at age of 15. you were burden to uncountable and unimaginable responsibilities on your Shoulder, its abuse and cruel. Theres no food, no food in the house, no one is there to cook for you,you eat whats in your surrounding, thats survival. Some abused at very young age , by their own fathers by burdening family responsibilities, on their young childrens shoulder. you are good in studies, you are able to pursue higher studies but your older siblings, hv some other plans which benefits them only. Thet are not willing to waste their money on you. life, but for them, its a waste. They wud rather invest money in other things or assets, would multiply in years. So your ambition and aims means zero to them. This is one of thevreason, why Countless of good students are not getting chance to go for further studies. Heartless/ selfish older siblings.