Mother's :The pillars of Family

Mothers are being the very important human beings in their family..

A Father's Sacrifice never given a Thought.

A father gave the bedt education and send his children, to the good missionary schools, pd tbe school fees,beyomd his caoacity by borrowing frm money landers. Bytbthe older Children he bire were heartless ones. Fsil to give free education tonthenyounger ones, who hv been.overall, best among all the children he bore. The younger ones wete only in Primary school, as the Oder Ones hv Completed their school. The older ones hv statrted working and earning.When the younger Ones wete studying in Primary School.The younger ones wete sent to School untill form 5. No one among the Children willing to support the younger ones education. Instead create unwady situations fur thebyoung one, so the young one will find a Job and started to earn. insteaf the olser ones statrtef Controlling the young ones income ..

Missery means

If you dnt hv your father while growingup, its missery. If your basic needs are unable to full fill its mussery. If you are not bothered by your own siblings when,you need them while growing up, its missery. when you are forced to work over time, at the age of 14 its abuse and missery. at age of 15. you were burden to uncountable and unimaginable responsibilities on your Shoulder, its abuse and cruel. Theres no food, no food in the house, no one is there to cook for you,you eat whats in your surrounding, thats survival. Some abused at very young age , by their own fathers by burdening family responsibilities, on their young childrens shoulder. you are good in studies, you are able to pursue higher studies but your older siblings, hv some other plans which benefits them only. Thet are not willing to waste their money on you. life, but for them, its a waste. They wud rather invest money in other things or assets, would multiply in years. So your ambition and aims means zero to them. This is one of thevreason, why Countless of good students are not getting chance to go for further studies. Heartless/ selfish older siblings.

Life Long pampered

When life long pampered A grandma was pampered life long by her father, her younger brother's , sisters . Her life was just working ,earning and giving to support her kids education matters. No Time spend to care the kids or to hv Quality Time with them or guide them. She was earning working n pursuing her dreams as long she was earning. After retirement, she continues to experience the leisure life with her kids, her Brother's family and her home. Her Son had First Child his wife took care of the eldest child all by her self. Her focus was only on the girl. The 2nd Child was left with grandma. The mother does all the house work , cooking , cleaning ,washing n A to Z n leaving the child with Grandma giling she gives full attention. The History repeats. The grandmas focus was only on her hobbies n interest. She only feed n bath the child. Nothing shared , not even story Times , fun or laughter. The child grewup as emotionless Child and hardly shows interest on anything/any one. A woman who cant even take care of her own kids n spend time with them. How is she going to share emotional support. At mid 70 ies being vv active n focusing only on her own interest. Her kids life was as how not bothered by her ,so by their spouces . They married to someone same nature like their mother. Each One of them.mind their own business.

How others evaluate some one..

Being nice, respectful, caring , showing care, understanding. Without forcing the young ones against their wish . well.mannered n sweet talking , respectful , young people are always looked up.respectfully by others. Outsiders and Teachers always hv good n higher Opinion about certain people whom they think.posses quality. , but close family member sees only the weakness of their family member. Tjose who gliter, takls sweetly amd with glamour looks veing the qiality human being.The toogood n welbehaved always bullued and nit given Choice to make decissions in life.

Outsiders Opinion always different than a close knit/ kin

Famimy memvers wsoecualy Older Sibking veunf guardians of ykunger Dibkings in tbe absence od a fsther. act double or Over protective Over theur younger dibkings abd st the same ti.e not being sensitive, wuthnthebyounger ones needs. the basic needs are fulfilled but tje younger ones mwnral.,emotional deeds are not borhered. The older siblings find wsts to Ocvuoy the younger ones with hiuse Chires, learning, cleaning, and taking care of theur young neices abd nephews. The yiung ones foid and dressing bei g counred and takwn into.consuderstion. The otber tjings are nit given.priority. Thw older ones akwYs underestimate rhe young ones ability ,Talents and skills. Very Seldom, older siblings study theur younger ones. AlwYs older ones being rhe decisdion majers in.everything in the life of their younger ones, future , ambition, interedt, education. example : My older brother gad higher vission fir me wben I passef in firm 3 exam , he called me n told me, thT hevwill sr d me to UK or Indua fur further studies after form 5. vyt qjen he had his life partner, he has furgitten about his promise but want to make me a clerk either in a bank or in a press. My visdion was bigger, with out Consulting him, i joined Teaching. I srarted. as a Temporary Teacher. later pursued Hollidawy course n tuened out a train Teacher. Seeing countless of hurdkes n problems in my.life , both of mybsusters planned toget me bck with them. so ill be a life long slave to them. very strictly I voiced to them, even if i endup on street, ill.nrver conebck to them. i wud rsther live a life away from them.life long..

Heart of Gold

This term will best suit my 4th Sisterinlaw who is 2 years younger than me. The reason why I use this term on her, is because. with a two month old Son, She was taking care of me n my baby girl who was born, when her son was 2n half months baby.Fully baby sit by the grandma. After working hours in the evening she will bring her baby son to spend some time with.me n my new born,Baby girl. She Cooked for me the medicinal and hebal meal before going to work. My brothers house house was my home untill Im married to my hubby. Its not easy to take care of anyone when having own baby/ infant. She proved it wrong by being vv commited and hard working by gettimg all the things. very early m orning she gets up cooks for me and for her family and goes to work, after work she heats up the food and get things ready for me to bath my baby and then after completed all the important tasks, she fetch her baby son from her mothers house and brought him home and laid him beside my baby girl.Being a sister inlaw and taking care of her husbnad younger sister is not an easy task, but with love , concern and care she proved it..