Benefits / effects of being a life long learner

Learning is something activate humans brain and stimulates the nerves overrall. As long one keep on learning non stop , such human beings find satsfaction and fulfillness in their life. Their lifehas a meaning, when Lesrning takes place. Self satisfaction, Confidence, urge to Complete assignments. Upgrading them selves, Better Opportunities in life matters.

Education is utmost but selfishness has caused several Older family members to neglect the brilliant and start youths needs.

Education seems very important in the lives of lower middle class Community and in.the lives of parents frm.poorbfamilies fur rheur chikdren, but tjeirbyounfer sibkings life is not determined, n.not given Choice either fur education or fur future of tbe younger siblings The younger siblings are not given Chiice in life to decide what thrycwant or whst tbey intend to do after high school. The Olser Sibkings being Domineeri g untill many of rbeur Older Sibkings Childrens life abs happinesd being ruined by theyr parebts stuborn attitude. when the yiubfer one has someone of theur own Choice, they destrot theue happiness by beung artigabt and stuborn. Not borhered abtbthe yiubfer ones decision or Choice, but fibs somw ibe n fixed as their choice, aftervgettinf msrrued to rhe strabger of the parebts choice these youngster , after certain timwe find rheur own path n.life... when the youths in the family handle their own older Siblings. The married Older Siblings started to be Calculative.Hardky enciursge or being supportive. the younger ones , being a burden to them, no profit frm the schooling Youths. So they are adviced to fibd a job and earn. The youths Could be encouraged to go fir higher study in Govetnent School without paying fee, but thevfamiky memvers not willing to support, or not willing to educate the young ones. So the youths managed to get temporsry jobs abd started earning, but now the older Siblibgs stsrted to advice abd Control their earning. Getting the youngersters to get ready for marriage. Thiugh the youth nit ready to get married. when Choice not given, not encouraged to go for further studies, and squating with older Sibling , the only solution these youbgster fi d is to get marriwd abd keavevthe older siblings abd their homtown so rhsy will hv a roof of tjeur own. a shade or Cornwr , in rhe absebxe of theur parents.. As years pass, these youngsters are faced with multuiple challenges in life, treated v badly by rhe inlaws, by the owrson tbey are married abd by theur rekstives. harsh words,missuse pf yheur hard esrnings by the inlaws famiky members . Life withoyt parents abs griwi g in tbe sgade of older Soblibgs is a Curse to aol orphans. Time heals though Challenges.Hard work hard work and hardwork . Helps this younfster to be vety wise, problem solver , healer, abd beung a strong sipoet at the place , on tbeur family n fur theur oan children. The older siblings who hardly bothers about these individuals education and future, Spend beyond their limit and capacity to educate their own chikdren. One spend almost half million for his daughters education in Overseas, furvtwo tears, which was a waste . Because the daughter didnr put effort in studues and, failed twice thevexam and returned home after wasted several hundred thousand ringgit. A brother looked down his briliabt younger sister, make fun of her everytime when.he meet her. God has helped the helpless younger sister, by sending precious Gods messengers who guided her abd showed her the path to pursue tertisry ecucation. She was sekwcted in a intetnational University with 10K tution Fee by ministry of education as a gift fur being a dedicated Teacher for almost 20 years Teaching in Rural schools. The plus poimt was age syayed with the ibternational students in the International studebts Dorm. with almost sthdebts from almost 50 Over countries around the world. Being the only Malaysian student, mingling with postgrad and Phd students from various faculties, sharing Cultural experience. joined /participated in International students cultural week. Though her own sibling not willing to encourage her to pursue what she wants in life, God gave her an Opportunity, to study in a international university at the age of 40, with students around the globe.. I just accept this as Gods wish or Gods gift for serving the poor . Rural kids People can stop what we should get , when the almighty has planned, no one can stop, what we are supose to get.. The parents who pamparered and paid bigger sum for their children keiep on pamperimg them.life long. one spend almost

Believe it or not

A sister who was timid and never ask anything from her own sister, was gkibg thru assumtions in her life with her anotber sister, whom taken care by her oldest sister. tbeze two sisters hv been taken care by tbe oldest sister, give what was left n not qualiry food. since the fatber passed away, his pension was arranged to be given to the timid sister who cant work due to her life which was Conquered by the ellderly sister. THE TWO SISTERS WERE MADE MAIDS BY her OLDER SiSTER, ONLY , after finishing the house work they will eat. As the years passed, The two younger sisters started to hv health symtoms due to under nouished n always left alone in the house by the older sister. The second youngest n another sisters were thining n . But the eldest sister n ger daughter were getting healther and healfhier. When ever the younger ones face health isssues healthy n nutritious food deliivered to them.By the brother to the eldest sister. The youngest one started to face one by one heakth issues but tbe eldest sister n her daughters never had any health Issues. Onky the girls monthly alliwance serms vv impirtant to this women n her daughter. Cinderela story was going on real in this family. The Psycho Wicked oldedt sister victimized her younger sisters untill their heak lth was damaged. Such Cruel n heartless Spchos still living in famikies and kills the younger innnocebt n helpless ones slowly. when tbey are not bore by these bitches...May the almighty punish such cruel n heartless Bitches. Life long the eldest sistrr living a life of a parssite eating her own sinlings and fathers hsrd earned money. The life she lives is equal to a beggers life , no work , not working but eating with own siblings hard work n hard earned money. A sinner lives such a shameless life. Any human beings with Morers.life, eat all Values will never live such a life. A sinners life...and To sinners its a blessed life, to religious people, Its a cursed life , easy living and spending others hard earned money. Ethics and religion, means nothing in, sinners life. eat and shit seems the only thing.....

Unidays International students activities weeks.

International week celrbrated for 7 days in iium Gombak. almost 80 Countries booths exibiting, culture,skills, han dicrafts, dress, cultural dances, foody and souveniors. The Dthde ts from tne himeland will be standing in theur booths ecolain to visiter students about the cumtural things , those hv bsrn atranged fir vuewing and also for sale. Maysias bootj exibit by Sabah students with the bboo pole dance . four babmbus sare used in this dance. handcrsfts and beads frm sarswsk didolayed at the biith in the name of Malaysia ..

Sweet porridge , The most delicious ..

Growing up in Village and tsating the Authenthic meals prepared by older sisters fur us, all tne family members is something Common on daiky basis. out of tbis , my second suster used to cook, sweet oats Porridge fir all of us in a larve pot, add Coconut milk and pandan leaves. The most delicious Porridge i tasted duri g my cjikdhood days. otber than, Oats porridge, urughaal porridge one of the sweet porridge my suster used to preoared on evenings , at leadt once a week. urudhaal, is siaked and pounded in granite stone, grinder, traditional way. Me n mynyoubger suster as kids, were realky taken care by the older sisters lime theu own chimdrem, good food, and good dresses stitched by my older sisters. It was a real childhood life full of joy and and only play, learning and reading non stop. Daiky getting the maximum sun, by playing kites, catching grass hopper, climbing gusvavtrees, pluck guava n est on the tree at age 17.The only Tomboy in my Village n always mingling with neighbour boys and with my 3 brothers who with 5 years age gap.

Learning, not necessarily from educated.

Teaching in Rural schools gives us rich exposure, to anyone who wish to study the working environment. Year 2002 was a particukar year, I wss appointed as. srnior asdistannt and Engkish language Teacher in a oil palm estate school. That schools studebrs enrolment was only 20 plus, the Teaching personals were two temporary Teachers. One Malay Language Teacher, A gardener, Head Master abd Myvself as the bsvk bone of the school. I was told bybthe Education , officer inchargebof Primary schools, that I should help Principle.The students were mostly from that estate it self. vety daring, quickearning learners, Only they did not get , loving.caring and Compassionate Teachers. few upowr class girls were, naughty and behaved like College students. One girl and One boy, I cant forget due to their family environmemt. The boy used to be akwsys in clean shining school Uniform. The girl had white pearly Teeth. This girks mom, daily prepared fried noodles, and fried Chicken and brought to school. sgecwire gold necklace, huge earing avd gold bangjes , wore her husbands, shirt and pants. After give me the food, told me the name of her daughter n asked me to pass it to her daughter. She with smiling face, spoke to me politely and, started to walked around the temple. This is something wrong ,I realized she has lost her sense. The daughter told me , that her mom,not well.Ibtold the girl, a mom whether sick or not sick,only her children being important in their life.,Thats why sge brings the food she prepared by her self for her daughter. Oneday before Teachers day celeberation, I asked the students what they like to eat. One boy told me, Teacher Cook for us some hot n spicy Vadai. The next morning I prepared hot dhal vadai with lots of hot green Chillies and sweet green beans fried balls. The kids enjoyed the sweet and hot kuihs I prepared for them especially, on Teachers day. My culture ,give beautiful and heartfelt memories to the Kids in.our Working environment.

Countless Dramas by a selfish Older Sister

Begining of the year 1990ies. One close relative girl,after Completing form 5 started working and living a happy ,joyfull life. Her married Sister was not happy seeing her happy sister working and earning and attends office functions. This Sister, took her sisters salary and spent as she likes. The excuse she gave her sister was, she was paying the tution fee of her Children. Not only her sisters salary. Her fatbers pension also she took n spent as she likes.Asjed her brother to bsnk infur her ,saying bandly need money and bought handphone for her daughters. These girls were not guided to cook, or perform any duty in tbe house. So the girls had countless of friends, all males. This was the time ,problem started when their boy frieds disturbed them.at odd hours, which the mother found out, but hide frm.their dad. dad foumd out the daughters hv bern chstting with guys much older than them at Odd hours, he warn the girls, they poked ld their mother. The mother started to argue with her husbabd. The argument turned as fight. The next day tbe husbabd was hit by a lorry n died on tbe spot. Hit n run. This was something unacceltable when tbevwife a d chiksren created a drama, telling rhe fatver was in coma for one week and died in hospital aftet the accident.. All tbe vrelatives were i furmed abt rhe accidebt but the husbabd is still in Cima, so everyo e got a chance to visit him,n tbevwife xan artange money for the husbabds funeral. His chain was morgaged and tbey gad cash in habd for the funeral. The orher deaths in ger family was i formed to all the wel wishers and collected n used by them, the exownces of the funeral was shared by the brorher n his family. either this woman or her children co trkbuted, but Collwcted the money put on rhe Corspe n roik n kept with themm. This is what Demans do.