Precious moments in years/ life

6th October 2023, thiscday os a very soecial day in my.life, becayse my birtjday was cekebrated as I wished. Great food, outing with family, cookies abd cakes bought by hubby abd daufhter, as My choice. if life long i have been given choice since young, life wiykd hv been a paradise. Since young, fiid , ckothing, outing everything as beem the olders choice n wish, but after 60, life and events are as i wish n as as I like. Wjen surre der our sekf to otbers n.let tjem de ide thats how life wud hv been as hiw they wished. But tje.life l live now vased on my Cjoice n.as I wish n.request.. when some gets everything as they wished since young, my.life is as I wished, whem.im away frm my Siblings. I hope only my wishes n hopes surrounds me..

Every experience and exposure has its own meanings and learnings.

One of the unexpected and not planned visit in year 2008 was ,to Tamil Nadu. The place I was visiting was a rural place , isolated away frm.towns and the modern, life. The ambasadar taxi we were travelling in went thru coconut plantations, banana farms, vegetable farms padddy feilds, Sugarcane plantation, turmetic farms, curry leaves farms. canals were everywhere bedside the roads. The coconuts trees were carrying loads of coconuts in bunches, but much smaller in size. in my house my coconut tree has only 6 to 8 big coconuts in its bunches.But the Coconut trees I saw in rural Tamil nadu has heavier bunches with 20 over coconuts , smaller size in every bunches. The Car was moving very slowly, we reach the school which gave admisdion to my daughter around 5.30 in tbe evening. The taxi fare was several thousabd rupees. Since we are not local n I wore Chudithar, this dress code is sometjingbweird in.Villages, even the school kids age 10 above wear half saree. the local young woman wear saree. So our aperance was a plus point to the taximan to make money by chargung very high amount.. The Schools director asked us how we ma naged to reach school. We told him we paid several thousand rupees n travelled in taxi, He said, the bustation not far from tbe airport, you could hv save alot if take the bus, that reeach our village, and stops infront our School. b

Heartless and selfish Women

Heartless and Selfish woman/ Demon dnt deserve to live in this world.My heart aches knowing a psycho, life long Victimizing own siblings family members close relatives, Countless of them for own benefits n to shut the shuters and shades of the knowingly and purposely made Countless of mistakes made in life. A curse in tbe family she was born. Own dad vwas Victimized by her when he adviced her to Change or to Correct her mistakes. His monthly penssion was steal by her, for her to spend as she likes, in the name exxuse of her childrens tution fee. Her monthky family income , 3 incomes in her husbabds family. Her mother inlaws imcome, Husbands salary n her salary. not one or two mistakes knowingly done by her but Countless . A heartless vamphire in tbe frame of a skin deep beauty . Lack Moral Values, Unethical behaviour, heartless creature in the frame of a woman. Those in her life and close to her all hv been Victimized. A worthless woman, a bad example of a an older sibling, Useless mother, unfit to raise chikdren, allnher Children left in her retired fathers care, with his hard earned penssion, which half of it, this Wicked woman snatched. Life long live an unethical life abs haviour. only lies non stop Coming from her mouth. Life long lier. Very Secretive, countless of Affairs. The Woman who Cherished husbabds death. Sisters death.Perfirmed soecial rituals for the youngest girl, onnher motjersvsusyers deayjday in her house , which is durbidden by religions..

Inspiration why it's Utmost to human beings

Inspiring, words are vv important.Whoever can inspire and work hard, live with hard earned money of their own means they are true human beings. Demons and beast live with hard earned money of others, they usualy victimized those who trust them or believe in them.Demons knows onky to take others hard earned money. Demons want everything easily. Easy life, no pain, no hardship. without working . get everytjing freely abd eaxiky. ,sucj life is just like tbe life of homeless, helpless beggers on streets, Ethical.hunan veunfs woukd never livebsuch sinful life, such life is a curse to anyone lives a shameless, umethical life.

MISSERY MEANS SO MANY Definitions...

Missery is defined as something, weird heartache, worst moments in any ones life. Sleepless night Caused by filthy heartless wicked beast in the frame of Oldest Sister. Ciynthess of misseries This Bitch has created life long to thise whom trust ger, her own, Dibkubfs, Husbabd, ger dad, her brother, her Cousins. A Psycho , only knows to gey n take rbe famuly memvers velingings abd gard earned mibey without any effort but Countless of non stop Lies. A psycho, pretender, Veing a Curse in tge famiky, Damaged, destroyed the good life n future of her Own Siblings. A dangeroues,Heartless bitch, moving as freeky as she likes. A Demin in the frame of a women. Lide long oretender, Countless of stories, She has created, life long to Convince her self as a responsible woman, byt in reality, sge us a hearest beast. Never been a giid wife, giid daughter inlaw ir a sister n as a mother. Innocent younger sisters , hv beem Victimized by her, her own brothers life happiness and health has been damaged by this Wicked n dangerous Bitch. She has already made arrangements to ampute ger innicent sisters leg, which sge xan save easiky with no expences but in olabt based green veg / keaves treatmwnt. A curse in the famiy. This Eicjed womans death only can save the orher Siblings life. Anyone who victimized theur own famiky memvers oe Dibkings are dangerous, human veings, when use the wird care n.love to cgest own sinkings hard earned mogey means. A Demon n.should be punished.

Benefits / effects of being a life long learner

Learning is something activate humans brain and stimulates the nerves overrall. As long one keep on learning non stop , such human beings find satsfaction and fulfillness in their life. Their lifehas a meaning, when Lesrning takes place. Self satisfaction, Confidence, urge to Complete assignments. Upgrading them selves, Better Opportunities in life matters.

Education is utmost but selfishness has caused several Older family members to neglect the brilliant and start youths needs.

Education seems very important in the lives of lower middle class Community and in.the lives of parents frm.poorbfamilies fur rheur chikdren, but tjeirbyounfer sibkings life is not determined, n.not given Choice either fur education or fur future of tbe younger siblings The younger siblings are not given Chiice in life to decide what thrycwant or whst tbey intend to do after high school. The Olser Sibkings being Domineeri g untill many of rbeur Older Sibkings Childrens life abs happinesd being ruined by theyr parebts stuborn attitude. when the yiubfer one has someone of theur own Choice, they destrot theue happiness by beung artigabt and stuborn. Not borhered abtbthe yiubfer ones decision or Choice, but fibs somw ibe n fixed as their choice, aftervgettinf msrrued to rhe strabger of the parebts choice these youngster , after certain timwe find rheur own path n.life... when the youths in the family handle their own older Siblings. The married Older Siblings started to be Calculative.Hardky enciursge or being supportive. the younger ones , being a burden to them, no profit frm the schooling Youths. So they are adviced to fibd a job and earn. The youths Could be encouraged to go fir higher study in Govetnent School without paying fee, but thevfamiky memvers not willing to support, or not willing to educate the young ones. So the youths managed to get temporsry jobs abd started earning, but now the older Siblibgs stsrted to advice abd Control their earning. Getting the youngersters to get ready for marriage. Thiugh the youth nit ready to get married. when Choice not given, not encouraged to go for further studies, and squating with older Sibling , the only solution these youbgster fi d is to get marriwd abd keavevthe older siblings abd their homtown so rhsy will hv a roof of tjeur own. a shade or Cornwr , in rhe absebxe of theur parents.. As years pass, these youngsters are faced with multuiple challenges in life, treated v badly by rhe inlaws, by the owrson tbey are married abd by theur rekstives. harsh words,missuse pf yheur hard esrnings by the inlaws famiky members . Life withoyt parents abs griwi g in tbe sgade of older Soblibgs is a Curse to aol orphans. Time heals though Challenges.Hard work hard work and hardwork . Helps this younfster to be vety wise, problem solver , healer, abd beung a strong sipoet at the place , on tbeur family n fur theur oan children. The older siblings who hardly bothers about these individuals education and future, Spend beyond their limit and capacity to educate their own chikdren. One spend almost half million for his daughters education in Overseas, furvtwo tears, which was a waste . Because the daughter didnr put effort in studues and, failed twice thevexam and returned home after wasted several hundred thousand ringgit. A brother looked down his briliabt younger sister, make fun of her everytime when.he meet her. God has helped the helpless younger sister, by sending precious Gods messengers who guided her abd showed her the path to pursue tertisry ecucation. She was sekwcted in a intetnational University with 10K tution Fee by ministry of education as a gift fur being a dedicated Teacher for almost 20 years Teaching in Rural schools. The plus poimt was age syayed with the ibternational students in the International studebts Dorm. with almost sthdebts from almost 50 Over countries around the world. Being the only Malaysian student, mingling with postgrad and Phd students from various faculties, sharing Cultural experience. joined /participated in International students cultural week. Though her own sibling not willing to encourage her to pursue what she wants in life, God gave her an Opportunity, to study in a international university at the age of 40, with students around the globe.. I just accept this as Gods wish or Gods gift for serving the poor . Rural kids People can stop what we should get , when the almighty has planned, no one can stop, what we are supose to get.. The parents who pamparered and paid bigger sum for their children keiep on pamperimg them.life long. one spend almost