The History Repeats

in 1985 a younger sibling who was only 23 at that time was match make by her older siblings to their brorhers close family friends nephew.Though She was not ready emotionally for Commitments. She told her brother n her sister who being the main people about her emotional level n she do not want to get marroed to any one at that time. Though there were other family , relatives those same profession ask for marriage. The sister was as stuborrn as her close brother, All her sister's crying, begging and tears does not seem to work with these two older Siblings. Though she was dissapointed with their decission. She has no choice,Other than getting married to their Choice n to leave het home town. Seeing all her older Siblings are settlled in life, after her engagement, she realized she's no longer needed in the family ,Seeing their not bothered attitude and reaction in the family. She was ready to move out by getting married to the older family members Choice.Life long tbe olser siblings want to Control her. Exactly after 25 years same situatiin Created by the older Brother for his daughter. This time after seeing her daughters profile on FB. her daughters Colligue visitted her n she shared the pictures of her friend visiting her and having meal with him . Both of her parents were vv scared that the girl will fall for him, immediately they found a boy n created a situation for both of them n get them.engaged, registered and married. She waited 1 year , divorced her husband and moved faraway frm a country . 38years ago when the younger sisters Colique visited her, the 2nd older brother did same thing. But this younger sister tolarated n lived though life was missery..

The Drama queen/ Poisonous Female

Going after good,well behaved and welnurtured boys. Threatening to comid suicide if the boy she is after refused to marry them. Introduce her other boy friends to befriend him and ask them to introduce liquer to him. Every step the boy takes Controlled by this poisonous female. All his friends, now in her Controll. Where he goes, with whom he mingles, whom.he meets this drama queen decides. The worst part, she never let him to spend time with his parents. Either in the house, Outside or whetebever, he is, she xontrols him either thru,phone or by being beside him. This woman when the husband is with her, She uses only phone,talking to her friends. Only her parents house she spends most of her time.A very good and wel mannered young man ,now she turned him as an alchoholic. Both mother and daughter great dramatist..They are the ones always Correct and no one else.Even after her brother left and not visiting them, Both mother and daughter hvnt Changed. Still trying all their tricks to manipulate her husbands family members, but her inlaws are awate of the dramas of the daughter inlaw and her mother.

Our Thoughts become our Destiny n life

My childhood days n memories has turned my life into what I live today. As long as I can remember since my primary schooldays. My family environment, My surroundings ,my neighbours their children and the life experiences seemed as the foundation or basic life which I live today. I never dreamed that I will live the life That I never thought or ever dreamed of. But the environment n Nature help to get or to design the life which I yearn to live. Basically im a vv simple and humble human being.Getting only the simplest and basic things needed to live a simple life. I wanted to be away from all the people in my life. God created the situation and. environment I wanted to live as i like. I created my child hood Village style and surroundings as I like. once the town which I cross while travelling in bus at midnight during school organised tour to south n after I started working and joined the information office programme visiting tbe Parlimen house. this littke town we cross at early morning on sevetal times I noticed this border town between two towns. after almost several years. Im married n settled in this rural town. Nothing much exposure for the kids who were born.n.raised here,So educated parents choose to send them abroad for higher studies. Very rare outsiders choose this place as their destination to continue life.. Very rare cases. But in late few years of Govenment staff and employees settled in rural towns ..

The wel behaved and Diciplined Youths

Its Universal truth that , youth or Youngsters who being v humble , polite and hving low profile, book worms and hardly involved in any bad behaviour usually under estimated not given priority by the older Siblings in any matters related to their future of plans for their future , life or their education. Many youngsters and teenagers being used as a full time cqre tajer, nanny , baby sitters and as family, assistants to take care of the family members, fulfilling the family members needs, getting basic neccessitues for the family, cook, take care of the young ones, wash the clothes, gettimg water from tbe well, finding wood for cooking. All sorts of family chores and responsibilities, in the presence of older Siblings. Some youths managed to pass school exams n move to upper class and school taking care of family n.studying by attending school. The Older Siblings hardly thinks or appreciate the hardship of these family members. instead , they keep on finding faults. Once these youths wish to pursue higher education, The older sibling humiliate them by sending these youths with good results n making them to repeat though they can.pursue Preuni in a Government school without paying any fees.The reason is indurectly forcing the youths tobrepeat the exam again so they yiutjs fedup of studying the same again n.will forget about going to school and studying the same syllabus contonuesly.

Only Parents can fulfill the youngsters Dreams and no One else Even if the child is out standing

The very unlucky kids are those taken care by the older siblings in.the absence of the parents either they are helpless or Sick. The kids future is a question ? Only The parents can infuse and motivate a child and not the older Siblings. Many youths thise wjo are suppose to.live a bwtter life n suppose to get goid education being exoloited stupidly by idiots known as older siblings who being vv selfish unabke to provide even.tne bqsic education of higher school to their siblings those who are average and good in theur studies..

Too many Cooks n a Poisonous Tree

Either too many cooks can.make a delicious meal at one time, Or a Poisonous tree to bear sweet delicious fruit. The story is when a cultured and norm Youth or child raised by hearltless or those who do not posses a heart, is a waste life. Same with a poisonous tree which bear lovely looking fruits but poisonus. No one can eat or benefit from a poisonous tree. The message is the life of useless human being who are unable to exibit any good behaviour , nature or failed to nurture the young ones, neglect the young ones education n take things for granted are not worth being older siblings in the family.Good values and norm, such adults are equal to a Poisonous tree. Such human beings life means nothing to the younger ones , Community n .those who knows such people, Such human beings not worth being older sibling and do not deserve to be family member.Their life is a waste.. Even the Cripled ones work hard for a living , but poisonous tree continues life by eating n living with others hard earned money life long.Such a sinner, surviving on others hard earned money life long with oyt feeling guilty..

Youngsters with Norms and Values

Youngsters or young ones raised by the older siblings, hardly given choice in life to further studies or to be ambitious. Such younger siblings misused by the older siblings who are not empathethic to care their family members in the absence of the parents or with aged or sick parents though they hv older siblings and educated sisters who can bear the familys burden on tbeir shoulder. The absence of a father always veing a great pain fir these young amvitious youth who are firbidden frm getting the important education, instead of prividing these young ones the basic familt life ans xare some older Siblings take advantage of these younfsters by letting these young budding girls to bear the pain of the famiky.burden.on theur shoukder thiugh they are not in a term to face all those responsibilitues which are not thwir choice.. The childhood, School life growing stage, future everything seens a boank or Zero in these youngsters life. Not only the older ones not onky wish fir a goid education, but even.their future turned into missery when blindly n.stubbornly these youngsters married off to strangers of their older siblings Choice life not only missery but a bad life with no hope.. what helps these youths n their future only faith in God n hard wirk. These young people work so hard to imprive their cursed life designed by the heartless n nempathethic older Siblings.. Only the hard work n gods blessings has saved these young ones n lead them to a better life with hope.. and no one else..Non.of the older Siblings...