The History Repeats

in 1985 a younger sibling who was only 23 at that time was match make by her older siblings to their brorhers close family friends nephew.Though She was not ready emotionally for Commitments. She told her brother n her sister who being the main people about her emotional level n she do not want to get marroed to any one at that time. Though there were other family , relatives those same profession ask for marriage. The sister was as stuborrn as her close brother, All her sister's crying, begging and tears does not seem to work with these two older Siblings. Though she was dissapointed with their decission. She has no choice,Other than getting married to their Choice n to leave het home town. Seeing all her older Siblings are settlled in life, after her engagement, she realized she's no longer needed in the family ,Seeing their not bothered attitude and reaction in the family. She was ready to move out by getting married to the older family members Choice.Life long tbe olser siblings want to Control her. Exactly after 25 years same situatiin Created by the older Brother for his daughter. This time after seeing her daughters profile on FB. her daughters Colligue visitted her n she shared the pictures of her friend visiting her and having meal with him . Both of her parents were vv scared that the girl will fall for him, immediately they found a boy n created a situation for both of them n get them.engaged, registered and married. She waited 1 year , divorced her husband and moved faraway frm a country . 38years ago when the younger sisters Colique visited her, the 2nd older brother did same thing. But this younger sister tolarated n lived though life was missery..

The Drama queen/ Poisonous Female

Going after good,well behaved and welnurtured boys. Threatening to comid suicide if the boy she is after refused to marry them. Introduce her other boy friends to befriend him and ask them to introduce liquer to him. Every step the boy takes Controlled by this poisonous female. All his friends, now in her Controll. Where he goes, with whom he mingles, whom.he meets this drama queen decides. The worst part, she never let him to spend time with his parents. Either in the house, Outside or whetebever, he is, she xontrols him either thru,phone or by being beside him. This woman when the husband is with her, She uses only phone,talking to her friends. Only her parents house she spends most of her time.A very good and wel mannered young man ,now she turned him as an alchoholic. Both mother and daughter great dramatist..They are the ones always Correct and no one else.Even after her brother left and not visiting them, Both mother and daughter hvnt Changed. Still trying all their tricks to manipulate her husbands family members, but her inlaws are awate of the dramas of the daughter inlaw and her mother.

Our Thoughts become our Destiny n life

My childhood days n memories has turned my life into what I live today. As long as I can remember since my primary schooldays. My family environment, My surroundings ,my neighbours their children and the life experiences seemed as the foundation or basic life which I live today. I never dreamed that I will live the life That I never thought or ever dreamed of. But the environment n Nature help to get or to design the life which I yearn to live. Basically im a vv simple and humble human being.Getting only the simplest and basic things needed to live a simple life. I wanted to be away from all the people in my life. God created the situation and. environment I wanted to live as i like. I created my child hood Village style and surroundings as I like. once the town which I cross while travelling in bus at midnight during school organised tour to south n after I started working and joined the information office programme visiting tbe Parlimen house. this littke town we cross at early morning on sevetal times I noticed this border town between two towns. after almost several years. Im married n settled in this rural town. Nothing much exposure for the kids who were born.n.raised here,So educated parents choose to send them abroad for higher studies. Very rare outsiders choose this place as their destination to continue life.. Very rare cases. But in late few years of Govenment staff and employees settled in rural towns ..

The wel behaved and Diciplined Youths

Its Universal truth that , youth or Youngsters who being v humble , polite and hving low profile, book worms and hardly involved in any bad behaviour usually under estimated not given priority by the older Siblings in any matters related to their future of plans for their future , life or their education. Many youngsters and teenagers being used as a full time cqre tajer, nanny , baby sitters and as family, assistants to take care of the family members, fulfilling the family members needs, getting basic neccessitues for the family, cook, take care of the young ones, wash the clothes, gettimg water from tbe well, finding wood for cooking. All sorts of family chores and responsibilities, in the presence of older Siblings. Some youths managed to pass school exams n move to upper class and school taking care of family n.studying by attending school. The Older Siblings hardly thinks or appreciate the hardship of these family members. instead , they keep on finding faults. Once these youths wish to pursue higher education, The older sibling humiliate them by sending these youths with good results n making them to repeat though they can.pursue Preuni in a Government school without paying any fees.The reason is indurectly forcing the youths tobrepeat the exam again so they yiutjs fedup of studying the same again n.will forget about going to school and studying the same syllabus contonuesly.

Only Parents can fulfill the youngsters Dreams and no One else Even if the child is out standing

The very unlucky kids are those taken care by the older siblings in.the absence of the parents either they are helpless or Sick. The kids future is a question ? Only The parents can infuse and motivate a child and not the older Siblings. Many youths thise wjo are suppose to.live a bwtter life n suppose to get goid education being exoloited stupidly by idiots known as older siblings who being vv selfish unabke to provide even.tne bqsic education of higher school to their siblings those who are average and good in theur studies..

Too many Cooks n a Poisonous Tree

Either too many cooks can.make a delicious meal at one time, Or a Poisonous tree to bear sweet delicious fruit. The story is when a cultured and norm Youth or child raised by hearltless or those who do not posses a heart, is a waste life. Same with a poisonous tree which bear lovely looking fruits but poisonus. No one can eat or benefit from a poisonous tree. The message is the life of useless human being who are unable to exibit any good behaviour , nature or failed to nurture the young ones, neglect the young ones education n take things for granted are not worth being older siblings in the family.Good values and norm, such adults are equal to a Poisonous tree. Such human beings life means nothing to the younger ones , Community n .those who knows such people, Such human beings not worth being older sibling and do not deserve to be family member.Their life is a waste.. Even the Cripled ones work hard for a living , but poisonous tree continues life by eating n living with others hard earned money life long.Such a sinner, surviving on others hard earned money life long with oyt feeling guilty..

Youngsters with Norms and Values

Youngsters or young ones raised by the older siblings, hardly given choice in life to further studies or to be ambitious. Such younger siblings misused by the older siblings who are not empathethic to care their family members in the absence of the parents or with aged or sick parents though they hv older siblings and educated sisters who can bear the familys burden on tbeir shoulder. The absence of a father always veing a great pain fir these young amvitious youth who are firbidden frm getting the important education, instead of prividing these young ones the basic familt life ans xare some older Siblings take advantage of these younfsters by letting these young budding girls to bear the pain of the famiky.burden.on theur shoukder thiugh they are not in a term to face all those responsibilitues which are not thwir choice.. The childhood, School life growing stage, future everything seens a boank or Zero in these youngsters life. Not only the older ones not onky wish fir a goid education, but even.their future turned into missery when blindly n.stubbornly these youngsters married off to strangers of their older siblings Choice life not only missery but a bad life with no hope.. what helps these youths n their future only faith in God n hard wirk. These young people work so hard to imprive their cursed life designed by the heartless n nempathethic older Siblings.. Only the hard work n gods blessings has saved these young ones n lead them to a better life with hope.. and no one else..Non.of the older Siblings...

Missery life of misused Younger Siblings

Its always a life lesson , when not worthy, Selfish and heartless Older Sibling misuse her power for her own benefit by making the younger siblings life a very miserable life. Its a very heart touching of ignorant and naive younger siblings story or life experiences when the Devilish , human being Controlled them.life long by making them her slaves life long. just teach them to eat anything, n gave them dresses. Nothing else this Demon in the form of a older Sibling. Unbelieable but its the truth that this only flash and skin formed female through out her life living a sinned life by abusing her own blood, few of them passed away, but all of them never given exposure of any experiences of outside world. All of them raised like insane human beings. As long the siblings were growing these young siblings were neglected and not bothered by her. Only their dress and food were arranged for them. Today this Female Demon still Controls her younger siblings life. none of them can think as adults, because This Demon created a great wall known as sisterly love which is so dangerous n.poisonous destroyed thr health of all the younger siblings life. Continuesly living a vv Sinful life by sucking the blood of the younger Siblings whom she had charmed n druged. Only God can give this Demon an exprience which could make her realized who is she n the countles of disasters she had caused thru out her life ,in the form of vv heavy multiple sins of cheating, destrroying, ,abusing and

The Grand Feast.

Everyone gets Chance in life time to experience something special probably once. I had the Chance to experience so many thi gs in my life which could hv been, beyond anyones imagination. This could be a reason when we start to hv huge heart or being too generous despite neglecting our own Comfort zone to perform our duty. One of the grand feast I had attended and experienced in my life for the first time was in 1979. Because I was raised in a big family with simple living environment, I never experienced attending a Banquet hall dinner. My own brothes wedding reception was beyond my imagination. 2 nd experience was When I attemded National level Professional cources Organised by the Ministry of Education. The main people were Curricullum Development Centres Staff. It was a 4 days Course. 3 nights and 4 days Course at The Pearl Inteenational hotel, whixh was a 4 star Hotel with 4 days grand feast , Breakfast and lunch were buffet with, western, Continental, local, kampung and all types of main meals, desserts, ,cajes, siuos , meats spicy food, beverages, chilled , hot, puddings, cakes, sweets soups, local cakes. unlimited and unable to named displayed in grand scale.The first ever Course, that I attended, where the Teachers from Rural , Town schools, were feast countles of various meals with Good stay, with hope, after going back to school teach n show progress in students results. The 3rd time was in year 2012 when the Director of BUmi Putera Traders of Sabah, n his family feed us. The team which I joined to Conquer Mount Kinabalu in year 2012 for the first time. Actually Mr.Kadeer was, my Team Managers God brother since young ,So the hospitality was awesone. We were treated just like his own family members. We were served various types of cakes and Tea, because it was 13th January, One day before his Wifes 52nd birthday. Not only that our transport, Our snacks, Even after the Climb, On.16th ,we were invited to his food factory. This Company prepares Cooks and distrobutes food to Queen Elizabeth Hotel in Kota Kinabalu. After the food factory tour we were feast with all Types of Indian, Malaysian, Village,South Indian,North Indian, local food, Unlimited number of Food, desserts and meals. The hospitality was too Good. Never met anyone as good as these good Samaritans in my life before.. The eve after the climb on 15th january , after the Climb, everyone was exausted and were sleeping, since i didnt hv any meals during dinner around 11pm ,I was hungry and I left the place we were putting up which was arranged by Mr.Kaddeer, for 6 of us. Two teenagers and 4 adults. Im the only lady, an outsider,bravely moving around at late night, aronud 12 midnight searching for food at the Phillipino Market,managed to get some local cakes and a drink, pack the local cakes during our hiking so we can.eat on oue way. while I was getting the food. flash lights of Camera were on my face.When back to the apartment n managed to get one or two hours sleep,Again at 6.30 am, started my food hunting. Now Breakfast for the two guys and 3 ladies in my team. Managed to get nasi lemak packet nicely packed in tupperware , for everyone. So I bought three in one Coffee and mixed for all.The Team mates were vv happy seeing me preparing breakfast for them.The young girls had fever and slight injury , same with my sister. They didnt foolow me and the guys for lunch. theiy rest in Mr.Kadeers house and had rice poridge While my self with the 3 guys had great feast with Mr. Kadeers family at their food factory. An unforgetable experience of feast..A grand feast of life time...

prayers from morning till evening. Religion plays very important part in their life. People, their home, their vehicles, companies , the street and the housing areas , all carry the God's or the Goddess names. People just seemed too busy performing their daily chore's and no one is seen loitering or wasting time. Even the criplled have bussiness of their own. Amman travels, Murugan College, Sri Ambigai nagar, Sri velan Illam, Mahesan lodge and Pillayar Patti, these are the comman names found on streets and at the housing areas. People live very simple life yet live happily. no, ri

different worldexperience Monday, March 7, 2011 The devine land and the delicious vegetarian food Tamil Nadu, firstly its rural area, I mean the villages are known and seemed as devine provinces. The people in their daily life practice and carry out prayers from morning till evening. Religion plays very important part in their life. People, their home, their vehicles, companies , the street and the housing areas , all carry the God's or the Goddess names. People just seemed too busy performing their daily chore's and no one is seen loitering or wasting time. Even the criplled have bussiness of their own. Amman travels, Murugan College, Sri Ambigai nagar, Sri velan Illam, Mahesan lodge and Pillayar Patti, these are the comman names found on streets and at the housing areas. People live very simple life yet live happily. no, theft and no violence. People work harder to make living. On most of the hills temples are built. These Temples are famous and had drawn thousands of devotees as far as from the north and not to mention the foreigners who visit these temples. The Hindus in the south consume mostly vegetarian food and they adress themselves as ' Saiva Pillai' means vegetarians. Throughout the year these people consume vegetarian food and these food is very simple and delicious. Lentils , nuts, beans and raw spices and coconuts are used in curries and chutnies. Thosai and idli eaten with various types of chuttnies and the dinner is mostly either dosa or chappati eaten with the deliciously prepared chutnies.rice is taken only during lunch and small meals are consumed during breakfast and dinner, which consist of smaller shape idlis with various chutnies and curries, chapattis with dhal gravy. Non vegetarian food is available only at special restaurants and mostly fish , chicken and mutton served in tasty spicy gravies.India has its various sweets to name. Halwa, Jelebi, boonthi, palghova,maisoorphag,athirasam, burfi and gulabjamun. these sweet are available in most of the Indian towns and city restaurants. www.minakshi.asiseeit.blogspot.com at 10:07 AM Share No comments: Post a Comment ‹ › Home View web version About Me www.minakshi.asiseeit.blogspot.com I'm down to earth n a very simple hi uman being, always work-hard to educate the young teenagers about health, quality food, natural food, ethics, integrity and Godliness.. View my complete profile Powered by Blogger.

Kerala Land of Coconuts (Gods

different worldexperience Monday, March 7, 2011 KERALA THE LAND OF COCONUTS AND SPICE. Kerala is located in South India and is known as the land of coconuts. The people of this state are known as Keralites. They speak Malayalam which is their mother tongue. These people live a very simple life and quietly. Most of the Keralites are self employed. The land is fertile and suitable to grow rice, palm oil, coconut, spices, rubber and tropical fruits and vegetable. This is a land with beautiful land scape. The thick lush green forest makes one forget about the real world. People normally come here for relaxation and to get Ayurvedic treatment is something very special in this state. The food mainly consists of vegetables and cooked with coconut oil. Coconut is used in all the meals, from breakfast to dinner. Coconut is grated and finely pounded as a thick cream and then added to the curries and gravies. The popular breakfast here is kola puttu which is steam rice flour served with brown sugar, grated coconut and bananas. Sea food is another popular dish in the Keralite's daily life, which is cooked in herbs and spices which give these food heavenly taste. Shrimp is ‘known” as “semmeen” and prepared in many forms such as “varuval, kulambu and poriyal.” Ayurveda is the main attraction of Kerala.. The fertile soil is suitable to grow herbs and spices which are used mainly in ayurvedic treatment. The Keralite are very lean and healthy, this could be due to the consumption of the herbs and spices in their daily meal. Kerala has many hill stations to list. This state is one of the richest states in the south, where poverty is very low. The state with highest literacy in India is Kerala. Alluphy is a town with its canals and back waters. Boat house is a very popular tourist attraction which promises a calm and good rest for anyone who wishes to be away from the hustle bustle of busy life. www.minakshi.asiseeit.blogspot.com at 10:02 AM Share No comments: Post a Comment ‹ Home View web version About Me www.minakshi.asiseeit.blogspot.com I'm down to earth n a very simple hi uman being, always work-hard to educate the young teenagers about health, quality food, natural food, ethics, integrity and Godliness.. View my complete profile Powered by Blogger.

Enriching andvexcitingbexperience at Vidya Vikkas

different worldexperience Monday, March 7, 2011 Enriching and exciting experience at Viddya Vikkas My visit to a girls school which is located in countryside of Tamil Nadul was a pleasant visit and full of excitement. The things which I had never dreamed or thought came as surprise during my stay in the School. Actually Outsiders are not allowed to stay there, but since I'm a parent who had travelled alone and upon my request I was allowed to stay in the School compound. For the first time in my life I met Thousands of learners in a school studying in one compound. Most of the learners are from different ethnic and family background, some Are known as Badu gas, Swarashtras,Karnatakas, Malayalees, Telugus,Biharis, Gugerathis, The majorities are the Tamils and many more from various parts of India, The foreign students are from, Srilanka,Dubai, Kuwait, saudi Arabia, Singapore, Malaysia. Almost all of them practice their culture and mother tongue. Another experience is that the movie watching session, It was a day where there was a show, and it was the movie" Athavan" was shown and the "Human flood" almost three thousand students sat quietly and watched the movie so attentively, during a song sequence there was choress among the students who sang in the same tone. And when there was 'Punch dialoge ' the learners applauded I felt as though I was One of them, shaking my head and body as the students did. They sang in same tune and intonation, not even a minor error was there. These youngster were all stayed in the boarding school and only once a month visit their families and school is their home throughout the year The most exciting moment was mingling with the "kutties" kids below eight years. these kids have been staying in the hostel since they were five years old, few were from Orissa, few were from Kerala, few from Bangalore, few from Middle east, few from Srilanka, few from Singapore and few from Saudi Arabia, two from Malaysia and the majority from TAMIL NADU. They spoke very good English and they were looked after and fed by full Time nannies, until never thought of their parents and home, School is their home. My eight days gone just by mingling with those "kutties" asking them questions and answering their questions. They were so intelligent for their age. Their spoken English was perfect. Some teenagers who were 13 to fifteen whom I mixed and talked, found to be equal their IQ to The form six students and University student and they were much knowledgeable than the adults or The educated I met Here Once when I walked around an evening in the school compound I saw several hundreds of learners all girls sat for the study in their chudhithars and to my eyes they looked like hundreds of Goddess Saraswathys sitting and learning there. Their School Annual day was something Unforgettable, because a minister and a Police commissioner were invited as the guest speakers. all the students performances were perfectly presented, by the learners who had practiced themselves. It was a five hour non stop entertainment performed by only learners of that school and their performance was superb. The learners dance and performed like they have been specialized in those performances. It was a open hall which could accommodate several thousand people, to me it was a free open concert which has class. Even The five and six year olds were trained and performed fantastic performance What I noticed in the learners and the teachers of that School is the dedication, determination, commitment and willingness to explore plus the administration which gives the learners freedom to explore and to excel. The best students in the state, The youngest scientist of India, The Best yoga masters and youngest yoga experts all Found here. The learners excel in studies as well as in cocuricullar activities. The best Performance I have watched so far. The Directors, staff and the Teachers Of Vidyaa Vikkas stand as the strong pillars for the learners excellent, and for their achievement. www.minakshi.asiseeit.blogspot.com at 10:06 AM Share No comments: Post a Comment ‹ › Home View web version About Me www.minakshi.asiseeit.blogspot.com I'm down to earth

Central jawa

Home ▼ Tuesday, February 23, 2016 Central jawa Year 2013 november is the month , I joined my brother and his tour group to Central Jawa. Upon each visit to different places, I make sure to, learn something from each place that I visit. Jawa and its people are very different from the indian continent and the Sumatra people. The jawanese seemed to be religious, and most of the people whom I met at the hotel were all Hindus. Our visit was to tour the ancient Hidu temples such as the Penampanan Temple in Central Jawa, Borobudur and the Candi. Everything seemd to be very useful to these Jawanese.The handicrafs were simple and cute, most of the recycle or not very popular materials turned into cute souvenirs. The food consist of simple salads vegeis and chicken gravy. Tofu is used in classy restaurants and its fried using garlic. We visited the Palace in Central jawa and what I noticed and learnt was , Sanskrit was used in the palce and the royal families are Hindus. The uncles carry their neice on her wedding day on their shoulder and take her to the bride for the wedding ceremony. It is like the Hindu Brahmins carry their neice on their shoulder. www.minakshi.asiseeit.blogspot.com at 8:53 AM Share No comments: Post a Comment ‹ › Home View web version About Me www.minakshi.asiseeit.blogspot.com I'm down to earth n a very simple hi uman being, always work-hard to educate the young teenagers about health, quality food, natural food, ethics, integrity and Godliness.. View my complete profile Powered by Blogger.